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Caroline Rosales
Zwei kleine Kinder und Reichtum schließen sich aus, sagt Caroline Rosales

Zwei kleine Kinder und Reichtum schließen sich aus, sagt Caroline Rosales

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Wie arm oder wie reich eine Alleinerziehende ist, scheint immer wieder ein Thema zu sein. Eine Replik von Caroline Rosales.

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