Emotionen am Arbeitsplatz

Manager dürfen bei der Arbeit nicht weinen

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Kirsten Schiekiera

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Sollte man seine Emotionen offen am Arbeitsplatz zeigen? Manchmal kann ein Wutausbruch Wunder wirken. Und auch gute Laune lässt sich lernen. Bloß Tränen sind im Büro tabu. Experten sagen, wann und wo es ratsam ist, seine Gefühle zu unterdrücken. Und wie man sein Gefühlsleben in den Griff bekommt.

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