Adoption

Der Kampf eines Paares um ein russisches Mädchen

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Marion Gaedicke wollte ein Mädchen in Russland adoptieren. Doch Bürokraten bremsten. Gaedicke zog bis vor das oberste Gericht und gewann.

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