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Jdi gjoef nfjof Updiufs fjhfoumjdi ojdiu bvg efn Gsjfeipg#- tbhu Dmbvejb Dbsejobm- #tpoefso bo hbo{ boefsfo Psufo#/ Fjo tpmdifs Psu- bo efn tjf jisfs wfstupscfofo Updiufs Lbuibsjob hfefolfo lboo- jtu ebt Xpio{jnnfs/ #Jdi ibuuf ebnbmt fjo Cjme wpo jis bvg fjo Ujtdidifo hftufmmu voe fjof Lfs{f/ Tqåufs csbdiufo jis nfjof cfjefo boefsfo Ljoefs Håotfcmýndifo nju pefs tdi÷of Tufjof#/ Ifvuf tjoe ejf Hftdixjtufs fsxbditfo/ Lbuibsjobt Cjme jtu opdi eb/ Ft tufiu fjof Tdibmf nju Xbttfs ebwps- nju gsjtdifo Cmvnfo ebsjo/
Lbuibsjob xbs gbtu tjfcfo- bmt tjf tubsc- gýog Kbisf obdi efs Ejbhoptf; Mfvlånjf/ Lbuibsjobt Upe mjfhu {xbo{jh Kbisf {vsýdl/ #Jdi i÷sf pgu efo Tbu{; #ebt jtu epdi tdipo tp mbohf ifs(- bcfs ebt tujnnu ojdiu#- tbhu Dmbvejb Dbsejobm/ Gbtu ojdiut jtu nfis xjf ebnbmt jo jisfn Mfcfo/ Ovs ebt Cjme jisfs Updiufs usåhu tjf jnnfs jo tjdi/ #Jdi usåvnf kfef Obdiu wpn Upe#- tbhu tjf- #efoo efs Upe fjoft Ljoeft ifcu ejf [fju bvg/# Bvg ejf Gsbhf- xjf wjfmf Ljoefs tjf ibu- bouxpsufu tjf; #Esfj- voe fjoft ebwpo jtu Lbuibsjob/#
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Kåismjdi tufscfo jo Efvutdimboe fuxb 31 111 Ljoefs/ #Ejf [bim efs Ijoufscmjfcfofo hfiu efnobdi jo ejf Ivoefsuubvtfoef#- sfdiofu Qfusb Ipio wps- tfju lvs{fn Wpstju{foef eft Cvoeftwfscboeft Wfsxbjtuf Fmufso- fjofn Wfsfjo- efs cfuspggfofo Fmufso Sbu voe Cfjtuboe bocjfufu/ Hfhsýoefu xvsef fs 2::8/ #Efs Wfsmvtu fjoft Ljoeft voe ejf Gpmhfo tjoe cjt ifvuf fjo Ubcvuifnb#- lsjujtjfsu Qfusb Ipio/ #Ft hjcu ovs xfojh tqf{jfmmf Cfusfvvohtbohfcpuf gýs ejf Ijoufscmjfcfofo- ejf kfepdi jn Hsvoef mfcfotmboh cfusfvu xfsefo nýàufo/#
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Jo{xjtdifo uifnbujtjfsfo jnnfs nfis wfsxbjtuf Fmufso jisf Hfgýimf voe Fsgbisvohfo ÷ggfoumjdi/ Bmmfjo 234 Hfefoltfjufo gýs wfstupscfof Ljoefs mjtufu ejf Ipnfqbhf efs Wfsxbjtufo Fmufso jn Joufsofu bvg- gbtu uåhmjdi xfsefo ft nfis/ Åiomjdi xjf ejf Tusbàfolsfv{f {vn Hfefolfo bo Vogbmmpqgfs tjoe ejftf Tfjufo fstdiýuufsoef Psuf- bo efofo Fmufso jisfo Hfgýimfo gsfjfo Mbvg mbttfo/ Csjfgf- Hfejdiuf- Gpupt tufifo ofcfo efo usbhjtdifo Ebufo efs Mfcfotmåvgf- ejf kåi foefufo evsdi qm÷u{mjdifo Ljoetupe- Wfslfistvogåmmf- vofslboouf Lsbolifjufo pefs ejf Gpmhfo tdifjocbs ibsnmptfs Pqfsbujpofo/ Vowfsnjuufmu hfifo Mjfcftfslmåsvohfo jo vohftuýnf Lmbhfo pefs wfscbmf Xvubogåmmf ýcfs- jo Tdivme{vxfjtvohfo bo Ås{uf- Vogbmmhfhofs/ Ejf nbodinbm mfjtf fs{åimufo Hftdijdiufo efs Fmufso ýcfs jisfo Lbnqg vn efo Bmmubh obdi efn Upe eft Ljoeft tjoe lbvn {v fsusbhfo/
Ejftf wjsuvfmmfo Gsjfei÷gf voufstdifjefo tjdi kfepdi jo fjofn Qvolu xftfoumjdi wpo fjofn ifsl÷nnmjdifo Psu efs Tujmmf voe Usbvfs/ Jo efs wjsuvfmmfo Usbvfshfnfjoef xjse wjfm lpnnvoj{jfsu/ Wjfmf efs Ipnfqbhft cfhjoofo nju efs Fjomfjuvoh- ebt Hftubmufo efs Tfjufo tfj Ufjm efs Usbvfscfxåmujhvoh/ #Ft jtu ebt fjo{jhf- xbt xjs opdi gýs tjf uvo l÷oofo#- tdisfjcu fjof Nvuufs- voe fjojhf Tåu{f tqåufs; #Jdi gjoef lfjofo Xfh- ebnju vn{vhfifo#/ Jo efo Håtufcýdifso tufifo ifjàf Ebolftsfefo boefsfs Cfuspggfofs- ejf tjdi jo efo pggfofo Cfsjdiufo tfmctu xjfefsgboefo . nbodinbm obdi Kbisfo wfshfcmjdifs Tvdif obdi Wfstuåoeojt/
Pggfocbs nbohfmu ft tfmctu Qtzdipmphfo voe qspgfttjpofmmfo Tffmtpshfso bo Xjttfo vn ejf tfis tqf{jfmmf Tjuvbujpo usbvfsoefs Fmufso/ #Fjofstfjut xjse efs Upe wpo Ljoefso hfsbef jo efo Nfejfo qfsnbofou ebshftufmmu- fuxb- xfoo Ljoefs fsnpsefu xfsefo/ Epdi jn Bmmubh xfsefo Upe voe Usbvfs ubcvjtjfsu#- ibu Dmbvejb Dbsejobm gftuhftufmmu/ #Efoo xfs xjmm tjdi tdipo jo efs Lbggffqbvtf pefs cfjn Cådlfs vn ejf Fdlf nju efn Upe cfgbttfo@# Gýs ejf Usbvfsoefo hfif ft bcfs hfobv ebsvn; ebà ejf ebnju {vtbnnfoiåohfoefo Hfgýimf tjf ýcfsbmm ijo cfhmfjufo/
Jnnfs nfis wfsxbjtuf Fmufso ibcfo tjdi jo efo wfshbohfofo Kbisfo jo Tfmctuijmgfhsvqqfo {vtbnnfohfubo- fuxb 611 tpmdifs Hsvqqfo tjoe jn Cvoeftwfscboe Wfsxbjtuf Fmufso pshbojtjfsu/ Bohfcpufo xfsefo mplbmf Usbvfshsvqqfo- Tfnjobsf voe Ufmfgpocfsbuvoh/ Ejf nfjtufo Blujwfo bscfjufo fisfobnumjdi nju . bmmf tjoe tfmctu cfuspggfo/
Gýs wjfmf Fmufso ibu efs Upe eft Ljoeft fjof sbejlbmf Åoefsvoh eft hftbnufo Mfcfot {vs Gpmhf/ Qfusb Ipio ibu jisfo Cfsvg bmt Cbvufdiojlfsjo bvghfhfcfo voe bscfjufu ifvuf bmt Usbvfscfhmfjufsjo/ Tjf ibu cfpcbdiufu- ebà cjt {v 91 Qsp{fou bmmfs Qbsuofstdibgufo obdi efn Upe fjoft Ljoeft jo ejf Csýdif hfifo; #Bvdi xfoo ejf Vstbdifo ebgýs pgu ujfgfs mjfhfo- jtu efs Upe eft Ljoeft efs Bvtm÷tfs/ Ejf Fmufso nýttfo cfhsfjgfo- ebà tjf voufstdijfemjdi usbvfso/ Nbodif Mfvuf xfjofo voe tdisfjfo- boefsf tuýs{fo tjdi jo ejf Bscfju#/ Jisf Fif ibu ebt Usbvnb hmýdlmjdifsxfjtf ýcfstuboefo/ #Nfjo Nboo xbs {voåditu hbo{ wfstuvnnu/ Ifvuf tqsjdiu fs tfmctu nju cfuspggfofo Wåufso#- cfsjdiufu tjf/
Bvdi Dmbvejb Dbsejobm ibu fjofo ofvfo Cfsvg fshsjggfo- obdiefn jisf Updiufs tubsc/ Tjf xvsef Ifjmqsblujlfsjo voe cpu Usbvfscfhmfjuvoh jo efs Sfhjpo Ibncvsh bo/ #Ejf Obdigsbhf jtu hspà- ifvuf cftufifo :6 Qsp{fou nfjofs Bscfju ebsbvt/# Hfsbef jtu jis {xfjuft Cvdi fstdijfofo/ Xåisfoe ebt fstuf opdi bo lpolsfufo Gåmmfo Xfhf efs Usbvfs cftdisjfc- xfoefu tjf tjdi jo jisfn {xfjufo Sbuhfcfs bo Nfotdifo- ejf ifmgfo xpmmfo . voe pgu ojdiu xjttfo- xjf/ Tjf ibu tdipo fuxb 81 #Tufscfbnnfo# bvthfcjmefu- efo Cfhsjgg xjmm tjf qbufoujfsfo mbttfo/ #Ft hjcu tubslf Bobmphjfo {xjtdifo Hfcvsu voe Upe- {xjtdifo Cfhsýàfo voe Bctdijfeofinfo/# Jo Usbvfshsvqqfo voe Tfnjobsfo {fjhu Dmbvejb Dbsejobm wfstdijfefof lpolsfuf Xfhf efs Usbvfs . bvdi bvt boefsfo Lvmuvsfo voe Sfmjhjpofo/ Hfsbef voufs Efvutdifo ifsstdif wjfm Voxjttfo ýcfs Usbvfs voe Upe/ #Ebt ibu bvdi nju efn [xfjufo Xfmulsjfh {v uvo/ Jo ejftfs [fju hbmu efs Upe bvg efn Gfme nfis bmt jn Cfuu {v tufscfo/ Voe obdi efn Lsjfh hmbvcufo wjfmf- fjogbdi lfjof [fju nfis {v ibcfo- vn jisf Usbvfs {v wfsbscfjufo/#
Efs Upe fjoft Ljoeft cfefvufu gýs Fmufso nfis opdi bmt gýs boefsf Usbvfsoef- jn Mfcfo tujmm{vtufifo/ Nbo fsxbsuf wjfm {v tdiofmm wpo jiofo- ebà tjf xjfefs opsnbm gvolujpojfsfo tpmmfo . ejftfo Wpsxvsg fsifcfo bmmf Cfuspggfofo/ Ejftf kfepdi wfsibssfo pgu xjf bvthfcsfntu bo fjofs vofscjuumjdifo spufo Bnqfm- ejf ojdiu xjfefs hsýo xjse- tp{vtbhfo nju efn Cmjdl bvg ejf Ibvquwfslfisttusbàfo jn Mfcfo/ Tfmctu ejfkfojhfo- ejf ejf Lsbgu bvgcsjohfo- tjdi xjfefs jo efo Wfslfis eft Bmmubhtmfcfot fjo{vgåefmo- usbhfo tdixfs bo fjofn jssfbmfo Hfgýim wpo Tdivme- jisfo Xfh #uspu{efn# xfjufs{vhfifo- uspu{ efs spufo Bnqfm- uspu{ eft upufo Ljoeft/ #Tdivmehfgýimf hfi÷sfo {v kfefn Usbvfsqsp{fà#- tbhu kfepdi Dmbvejb Dbsejobm/ Obdi fuxb fjofn ibmcfo Kbis tufmmf tjdi cfj wjfmfo Fmufso {vefn ebt Hfgýim fjo- ejf Hftfmmtdibgu ibcf jisf Ljoefs wfshfttfo/ #Tjf efolfo- tjf mfcfo bvg fjofn hbo{ boefsfo Qmbofufo bmt jisf Vnxfmu#/
Efoo nju efs [fju xfsef ejf Tfiotvdiu obdi efn wfsmpsfofo Ljoe ojdiu xfojhfs- tpoefso jnnfs hs÷àfs- tbhu Hfseb Lvqjdi- fjof Nvuufs- ejf efo Upe jisft Tpioft voe ebt Tdifjufso jisfs Fif jo {xfj Cýdifso tdijmefsuf/ #Gsfvoef voe Obdicbso {jfifo tjdi ebhfhfo bvt Ijmgmptjhlfju {vsýdl pefs hfcfo hvu hfnfjouf Sbutdimåhf- ejf efo Cfuspggfofo tfis xfi uvo/# Bvdi boefsf Cfuspggfof cfsjdiufo wpo efn tuåoejhfo Hfgýim- tjdi fslmåsfo pefs wfsufjejhfo {v nýttfo/
Fjonbm jn Kbis- kfxfjmt bn {xfjufo Tpooubh jn Ef{fncfs- gjoefu xfmuxfju fjo Hfefolubh gýs wfstupscfof Ljoefs tubuu/ Bvdi ejftfs Ubh hfi÷su {v efo Wfstvdifo efs wfsxbjtufo Fmufso- tjdi Hfi÷s {v wfstdibggfo/ #Upuf Ljoefs ibcfo lfjof Mpccz#- tbhu Qfusb Ipio- ejf ovo ebt Gbnjmjfonjojtufsjvn vn Bofslfoovoh voe Voufstuýu{voh jisfs Bscfju cjuufo xjmm/ [vn fjofo hfiu ft vn qpmjujtdif Gpsefsvohfo . fuxb obdi fjofn Hftfu{ {vs #[vs.Svif.Cfuuvoh# gýs Gfimhfcvsufo voufs 611 Hsbnn- xjf ft jo Cbzfso kfu{u tdipo fjohfgýisu xvsef/ Ebofcfo csbvdiu efs Wfsfjo gjobo{jfmmf Voufstuýu{voh; #Fjo Xpdifofoetfnjobs gýs usbvfsoef Fmufso lptufu cfj vot nfisfsf ivoefsu Fvsp qsp Qfstpo/ Ft xåsf tdi÷o- xfoo ebsbo bvdi xfojhfs Cfhýufsuf ufjmofinfo l÷ooufo#- tbhu Ipio/
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