Partnerschaft und Mode

Wenn Frauen Männer anziehen wollen

| Lesedauer: 8 Minuten
Sandra Winkler

Frauen sind mit dem Kleidungsstil ihres Partners nur selten einverstanden. Sie kritisieren seine ausgeleierten Jogginghosen, seine alten Turnschuhe, seine speckige Umhängetasche. Damit die Kleiderfrage nicht zum Knackpunkt der Partnerschaft wird, sollten Frauen einige simple Regeln beachten.

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