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„Was gewesen wäre“. Von alten und neuen Mauern

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Peter Zander
Paul (Ronald Zehrfeld, l.) beobachtet eifersüchtig Astrid (Christiane Paul) und ihren Ex (Sebastian Hülker, r.).

Paul (Ronald Zehrfeld, l.) beobachtet eifersüchtig Astrid (Christiane Paul) und ihren Ex (Sebastian Hülker, r.).

Foto: Flare Film

Ein starkes Kinodebüt reflektiert das große Fremdeln zwischen Ost und West – und das nicht nur innerdeutsch:„Was gewesen wäre“.

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Liebe von drei Monaten gegen Schmerz von 30 Jahren

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Liebe von drei Monaten gegen Sehnsucht von 30 Jahren

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Nervöses Vibrieren und massige Verletzlichkeit

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Nebenbuhler auf typisch männliche Art

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