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Ungefragte Meinungen von Fremden? Mögen Mütter besonders

| Lesedauer: 4 Minuten
Caroline Rosales
Erziehung von Kindern ist ein heikles Thema.

Erziehung von Kindern ist ein heikles Thema.

Foto: Rolf Vennenbernd / dpa

Der Nachbar hat einen guten Tipp, die eigene Mama bittet, sich warm anzuziehen. Ungefragte Meinungen sind bei Mütter sehr unbeliebt.

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