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Macht ihr denn keine Ausflüge?

Viele gute Ratschläge prasseln auf Alleinerziehende ein, doch eine unschuldige Frage kann alles ändern, meint Caroline Rosales.

Foto: Reto Klar

Oft sieht es ja so aus, dass Freunde oder die Familie (vorzugsweise die eigene Mutter) ankommen und sagen: „Du siehst müde aus. Mach doch mal Yoga.“ Oder auch kritischer: „Du verbringst nicht genug Zeit mit deinen Kindern. Du bist immer so gestresst.“ Und natürlich (also zumindest ich) rollt man dann mit den Augen. Weil jede berufstätige Mutter tief in ihrem verwundbarsten Inneren weiß: Es stimmt. Aber da die Vereinbarkeitslüge real, Homeoffice der Witz des Jahrhunderts und Kinder mit Karriere-Ambitionen in Deutschland nicht kompatibel sind, MACHE ICH EINFACH SO WEITER. Weil es die Wahl nicht gibt.

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