Mamas & Papas

Abschied von der Last-minute-Mentalität

| Lesedauer: 4 Minuten
Sandra Garbers
Schulkind

Schulkind

Foto: Arno Burgi / dpa

Wenn das erste Kind zur Schule kommt, muss man als Eltern den Alltag der Familie plötzlich ganz anders planen.

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