Psychologie

„Ein Familienbetrieb ist eine kooperative Lernaufgabe“

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Franz Michael Rohm

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Wie vereinbart man Berufliches und Privates? Diplom-Psychologin Bettina Hannover über das Geben und Nehmen und faires Aushandeln.

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