Interview

Josephine Apraku: „Liebe ist etwas, das man tut“

| Lesedauer: 6 Minuten
Jana Treffler
Josephine Apraku schreibt und lehrt in Berlin. Jetzt erscheint das Buch "Kluft und Liebe", in dem es um soziale Ungleichheit in Liebesbeziehungen geht.

Josephine Apraku schreibt und lehrt in Berlin. Jetzt erscheint das Buch "Kluft und Liebe", in dem es um soziale Ungleichheit in Liebesbeziehungen geht.

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Ungleichheit und Diskriminierung wirken sich darauf aus, wie wir lieben. Josephine Apraku hat mit „Kluft und Liebe“ ein Buch darüber geschrieben.

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