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Wie man erotisches Kapital im Geschäftsleben einsetzt

Elisabeth Bonneau ist Knigge-Expertin. Hier erklärt sie, welche Kleiderordnung auf der Karriereleiter herrscht und wie Frauen dort mit Weiblichkeit auftrumpfen können.

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Die Bestseller-Autorin Elisabeth Bonneau ist gefragte Ratgeberin von Karrierefrauen und -männern. Sie schrieb 25 Bücher, darunter Titel wie „Stilvoll zum Erfolg – Der moderne Business-Knigge“. Ein Gespräch über Weiblichkeit, aufrechte Haltung und entscheidende Begegnungen an der Bar.

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