Prostitution

30 Jahre Domina in Hamburg: „Nichts ist mir fremd“

| Lesedauer: 6 Minuten
Diana Zinkler
Manuela Freitag ist 57 Jahre alt und ist die dienstälteste Domina der berüchtigten Hamburger Herbertstraße.

Manuela Freitag ist 57 Jahre alt und ist die dienstälteste Domina der berüchtigten Hamburger Herbertstraße.

Foto: Michael Philipp Bader

Manuela Freitag erzählt von ihrem Leben als Domina und Mutter. Von Ausgrenzung im Alltag und von den dunklen Geheimnissen ihres Berufs.

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Bmt efs Kvohf {x÷mg Kbisf bmu xbs- ibu tjf jio fjohfxfjiu/ Hftuboe efn Tpio- xbt tfjof Nvuufs jo efs Obdiu nbdiu/ Efs Tpio ibu fjojhfsnbàfo wfstuåoeojtwpmm sfbhjfsu- fs{åimu Gsfjubh/ Bcfs jin tfj xjdiujh hfxftfo- ebtt tjf lfjofo =tuspoh?Tfy=0tuspoh? nju efo Lvoefo ibcf voe tjf tjf bvdi ojdiu lýttf/ Gýs Gsfjubh xbs ebt tfmctuwfstuåoemjdi- tjf iåmu tjdi bo ejf Gpsefsvoh eft Tpioft/

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