Sterbebegleitung

Experten erklären: So überwindet man die Angst vor dem Tod

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Britt-Marie Lakämper
Je später wir beginnen, uns mit dem Sterben zu beschäftigen, desto komplexer wird die Situation.

Je später wir beginnen, uns mit dem Sterben zu beschäftigen, desto komplexer wird die Situation.

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Claudia Bausewein und Rainer Simader begleiten Menschen beim Sterben. Sie erklären, wie man über das Unvermeidliche sprechen kann.

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„99 Fragen an den Tod“ – Das sind die Autoren

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