Ethik

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Nicole Dolif

Soll man ein Kind bekommen, wenn schon sicher ist, dass es nach der Geburt stirbt? Viereinhalb Wochen brauchen Constanze und Tibor Bohg, bis sie eine Antwort haben. Dann steht fest: Sie wollen ihren Sohn zur Welt bringen, ihn kennenlernen und sich dann von ihm verabschieden

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