Mamas & Papas

Wie Jungs mit Jungs Konflikte lösen

| Lesedauer: 4 Minuten
Susanne Leinemann

In der Woche vor den Herbstferien kauften wir unserem Sohn einen Ball für die Schulhofpause. Genau genommen nicht ihm, sondern seiner Klasse - eine Sachspende, wenn man will.

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