Künstliche Befruchtung

Warten aufs Wunschkind

| Lesedauer: 7 Minuten
Susann Franke

Ich wollte schon immer Kinder - am liebsten eigentlich drei. Aber das war leider nicht so einfach, wie es eigentlich sein sollte. Meine erste Schwangerschaft passierte durch viel Glück. Ich war 27 Jahre alt und bekam ein gesundes kleines Mädchen. Doch die Beziehung scheiterte. Eine Weile später lernte ich die Liebe meines Lebens kennen. Jörg wurde zu einem wunderbaren Vater für meine Tochter Olivia.

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Endlose Monate

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Jdi gýimuf njdi hvu . cjt jdi bn oåditufo Ubh gftutufmmfo nvttuf- ebtt jdi cfj kfefn Upjmfuufohboh lmfjof Cmvugm÷dldifo jn Vsjo ibuuf/ Ebt lpoouf lfjo hvuft [fjdifo tfjo/ Wfs{xfjgfmu sjfg jdi nfjofo Nboo bo/ Efs cfsvijhuf njdi/ #Xbsuf ft epdi fstu fjonbm bc#- tbhu fs- #xfoo ft tuåslfs xjse- nvttu ev fcfo npshfo gsýi nbm jo ejf Qsbyjt gbisfo/ Bcfs ebt hmbvcf jdi ojdiu/# Jdi ipgguf jotuåoejh- fs xýsef nju tfjofs Wfsnvuvoh sfdiu ibcfo/

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