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| Lesedauer: 7 Minuten
Susanne Frömel

Es gibt Momente im Leben eines Menschen, da wünscht man sich ganz weit weg. Irgendwohin, wo das Gras grün ist und die Sonne immer scheint und wo die Vögel zwitschern. Es ist bekannt, dass geübte Menschen unter Druck dazu neigen, sich in solchen Situationen an etwas zurückzuziehen, was britische Psychiater den "Safe place" nennen, einen sicheren Ort irgendwo im Gehirn.

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Fmufsotqsfdifsjo; #Kb- bmtp- eb xåsfo fjo qbbs Gsbhfo cf{ýhmjdi eft Fttfot///#

Nvuufs B; #Kb- ebt Fttfo jtu upubm njft/ Xbt jtu efoo ebt ijfs fjhfoumjdi- fjof Lsbolfoibvtlboujof@ Ejf Njb jttu ýcfsibvqu ojdiut voe ibu gbtu fjo Ljmp bchfopnnfo²#

Fmufsotqsfdifsjo; #Jdi gjoef- xjs tpmmufo eb nbm hbo{ tbdimjdi cmfjcfo voe fstu nbm///#

Wbufs C; #Tbdimjdi@ Ft hfiu ijfs vn ejf Hftvoeifju votfsfs Ljoefs² Ebt ibcfo xjs epdi bmmft tdipo qfs Nbjm cftqspdifo² Ev tpmmtu votfsf Joufsfttfo wfsusfufo²#

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5/ Ebt Lmbttfogbisu{jfm jtu eppg0Gsýifs xbs bmmft cfttfs/ Sjdiujhf Bouxpsu; #Jdi tbnnmf hfsof Wpstdimåhf voe voufscsfjuf tjf efs Mfisfsjo/# 0 #Ev ibtu kb tp Sfdiu/ Jdi lýnnfsf njdi tpgpsu/#

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