Markus Ernst

"Eine Chance zur Erneuerung"

| Lesedauer: 6 Minuten

Nach einer Trennung braucht man durchschnittlich 19 Monate, um darüber hinwegzukommen. Aber der Schmerz, den eine Trennung auslöst, fühlt sich am Anfang meist endlos an. Die Person, die man geliebt hat, ist weg, und man ist allein.

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