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Die Liebe begann mit einer simplen Frage: „Warum nicht?“

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Herz auf der Staffelei: Impression aus dem Lietzenseepark in Charlottenburg,  März 2021.

Herz auf der Staffelei: Impression aus dem Lietzenseepark in Charlottenburg, März 2021.

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Bianka ließ Ralf lange um sich werben. Beim Heiratsantrag in einem Kreuzberger Restaurant applaudierten die Kellner

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Die Eltern wussten, wie man gut feiert

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Ihre größte Leidenschaft gilt dem Ballett

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Ihm eilte ein bestimmter Ruf voraus

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Die Eltern ließen viele Freiheiten

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Der Freundeskreis muss sich nicht aufteilen

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