Film

"Vergiss mein Ende" bleibt in der Familie

| Lesedauer: 6 Minuten
Peter Zander

Foto: Amin Akhtar

Hermann Beyer, Renate Krößner und Eugen Krößner sind Vater, Mutter, Kind - im echten Leben und nun auch vor der Kamera. In "Vergiss mein Ende" verkörpert das Trio eine Familie, die mit der Alzheimer-Krankheit umgehen muss.

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Erst wollte der Regisseur gar nicht

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Die Angst vor zu viel Nähe

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