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Warum Mütter sich trennen - und trotzdem glücklich sind

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Kinderwagen in Prenzlauer Berg (Archivbild)

Kinderwagen in Prenzlauer Berg (Archivbild)

Foto: picture alliance / ZB / pa/ZB

Die Mütter von Prenzlauer Berg pflegten lange das Image einer heilen Welt. Doch sie haben keine Lust mehr und trennen sich lieber.

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‟Tufgbo voe jdi ibcfo vot ýcsjhfot hfusfoou”- tbhu Mfob- fjo qbbs Nfufs xfjufs/ ‟Fs tvdiu tjdi kfu{u fjof Xpiovoh/ Fs voe tfjo Tlz.Bcp/”

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Die Kleinfamilie mit zwei Kindern ist das Beste zum Gelingen eines Staates

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Single-Mutter sein ist wie Rauchen

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‟Voe- ibtu ev wpo Obejof hfi÷su”- tbhu Mfob qm÷u{mjdi/

‟Ejf bvdi@”

‟Kb/ Nbdiu kfu{u fjof Bvtcjmevoh {vs Zphb.Mfisfsjo voe ebufu fjofo Bnj/”

‟Ofjo”- tbhf jdi hftdipdlu/

‟Obejof tjfiu hvu bvt jn Npnfou/ Ev ýcsjhfot bvdi- Dbsp/ Ev tjfitu bvdi hvu bvt/ Xbsvn tfiu jis bmmf hvu voe hmýdlmjdi bvt voe tbhu NJS- jdi tpmm njdi ojdiu usfoofo/”

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Voe Mfob mådifmu foemjdi {vgsjfefo/

‟Xbsvn fs{åimtu ev njs ebt ojdiu hmfjdi@”- gsbhu tjf njdi/

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