Die Lebenden & Die Toten

Das Leben feiern

| Lesedauer: 6 Minuten
Andreas Kurtz
Nachdem Katherine Mehrling mit 30 Jahren  Vollwaise geworden war, suchte sie lange nach einem neuen Halt in ihrem Leben.

Nachdem Katherine Mehrling mit 30 Jahren Vollwaise geworden war, suchte sie lange nach einem neuen Halt in ihrem Leben.

Foto: Christian Schulz / Schrammfilm/Piffl Medien

Katharine Mehrling trauerte lange um ihre Eltern, deren Präsenz sie heute manchmal auf der Bühne spürt.

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Katherine Mehrlings Eltern haben ihre Erfolge nicht mehr erlebt

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