Lebenden und die Toten

Gayle Tufts: Es schmerzt bis heute

| Lesedauer: 6 Minuten
Andreas Kurtz
Gayle Tufts weiß schon, welches Lied auf ihrer Trauerfeier gesungen werden soll – und von wem.

Gayle Tufts weiß schon, welches Lied auf ihrer Trauerfeier gesungen werden soll – und von wem.

Foto: Christian Schulz

Nach 17 Jahren mit ihrem Vater lebt Entertainerin Gayle Tufts nun schon über 40 ohne ihn.

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„Das Lachen hat uns gerettet“

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„Die Leute sollen mitsingen, lachen und weinen“

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