Die Lebenden und die Toten

Der intimste Moment eines Menschen

| Lesedauer: 7 Minuten
Andreas Kurtz

Am Ende durfte Modedesignerin Anna von Griesheim ihrer Schwiegermutter Wilhelmina die Hand halten. Und verlor dabei die Angst vor dem Tod

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