Die Lebenden & Die Toten

Wie kostbar Trauer ist

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Andreas Kurtz
Luci van Org

Luci van Org

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Sängerin Luci van Org hilft verwaisten Eltern und Geschwistern, will mutig sterben und hat entschieden, sich nicht mehr zu schminken.

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