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Warum ich keine Bastelnachmittage im Kindergarten brauche

Kindergärten nehmen Mütter gerne in die Pflicht. Dabei vergessen wir, dass da niemand mitmachen muss, findet Caroline Rosales.

Caroline Rosales

Caroline Rosales

Foto: PA/ Caroline Rosales / Funke Medien Gruppe

Stellen Sie sich einmal Top-Manager Josef Ackermann vor, meine Damen und Herren, Josef Ackermann himself – ab-straktionsfrei auf der ersten Ebene. Oder Reinhold Würth, Mogul der Würth-Gruppe mit über 74.000 Beschäftigten. Oder Warren Buffet, lange Zeit der reichste Mann der Welt, heute immer noch im Maßanzug und gutsitzender Krawatte unterwegs. Und jetzt bringen sie diese Herren einmal mit einem Herbst-Igel-Bastelnachmittag im Kindergarten zusammen.

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