Mamas & Papas

Am Milchpulver erkennt man den Vater

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Judith Luig

Judith Luig hat beobachtet, warum Mütter andere Strategien im Umgang mit ihrer Umwelt entwickeln – und damit auch scheitern können.

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Mütter reden gerne darüber, wer den unfähigsten Mann zu Hause hat

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„Torsten und ich teilen uns alles ganz gleichberechtigt auf“

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