Samenspende

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Was sollten Paare beachten, die sich Kinder per Samenspende wünschen? Was brauchen die sogenannten Spenderkinder? Eine Expertin gibt Rat

Doris Wallraff ist Psychologin und Autorin

Doris Wallraff ist Psychologin und Autorin

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Doris Wallraff berät Paare, die sich ihren Kinderwunsch über eine Samenspende erfüllen wollen. Die Psychologin hat auch einen Ratgeber zum Thema geschrieben. Sie empfiehlt, Spenderkinder so früh wie möglich über ihre Herkunft aufzuklären.

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