Familie

„Das Alter der Eltern ist nicht das wichtigste Kriterium für Kinder“

| Lesedauer: 5 Minuten

Die Zahl der älteren Väter nimmt zu. Das kann gut sein, aber birgt auch Komplikationen. Ein Interview mit dem Therapeuten eines Berliner Familienplanungszentrums.

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