Interview

„Betroffene müssen lernen, negative Gefühle wie Neid oder sogar Hass zuzulassen“

| Lesedauer: 5 Minuten
Annette Kuhn

Geschwister behinderter Kinder haben gelernt, ihre Interessen zurückzustellen. Der Sozialpädagoge Eberhard Grünzinger erklärt, wieso zu viel Anpassung zur Belastung werden kann

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