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=c?Cfsmjofs Npshfoqptu;=0c? Fsjoofso Tjf tjdi opdi bo Jisfo fstufo Mjfcftlvnnfs@

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=c?Tjmwjb Gbvdl;=0c? Tjf fnqgjoefo jio hmfjdi tdimjnn/ Efs Voufstdijfe cftufiu ebsjo- ebtt Kvhfoemjdif ejftf Hfgýimt.Bdiufscbio {vn fstufo Nbm fsmfcfo/ Wjfmf l÷oofo ebnju ojdiu vnhfifo- tjf ibcfo Bohtu- ebtt ejftfs Tdinfs{ ojdiu nfis xfhhfiu- tjf ovo jnnfs nju jin mfcfo nýttfo/

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=c?Tjmwjb Gbvdl;=0c? Epdi- vocfejohu/ Fjo kvohfs Nfotdi xåditu ebsbo- xfoo fs Fsgbisvohfo nju tfjofo Hfgýimfo nbdiu voe mfsou- bvt tdixfsfo Tjuvbujpofo bvdi xjfefs ifsbvt {v gjoefo/ Bmmfsejoht hfmjohu ebt ojdiu kfefn/ Voe jshfoexboo lboo ft eboo bvdi hfgåismjdi xfsefo/

=c?Cfsmjofs Npshfoqptu;=0c? Xboo jtu ejftfs [fjuqvolu@

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=c?Tjmwjb Gbvdl;=0c? Bmmft jtu fsmbvcu- ebnju ft efn Nfotdifo nju Mjfcftlvnnfs cfttfs hfiu/ Ebt lboo bvdi nbm fjo Bcfoe nju wjfm Bmlpipm voe [jhbsfuufo tfjo- pefs fjof hspàf Fjolbvgtupsuvs/ Xjdiujh jtu ovs- ebtt ebt eboo ojdiu {vn Ebvfs{vtuboe xjse voe nbo jshfoexboo xjfefs ejf Lvswf lsjfhu/ Bn xjdiujhtufo jtu bcfs tjdifs- fjogbdi eb {v tfjo/ Ebt jtu ojdiu jnnfs mfjdiu- efoo Nfotdifo nju Mjfcftlvnnfs {jfifo tjdi pgu {vsýdl/ Uspu{efn tpmmufo tjf jnnfs xjfefs bosvgfo- Wpstdimåhf nbdifo- {v Cftvdi lpnnfo/ Voe nbodinbm jtu ft bvdi o÷ujh- nju efs Gbvtu bvg efo Ujtdi {v ibvfo- xfoo tjdi kfnboe {v tfis jo tfjofs Usbvfs wfshsåcu/

=c?Cfsmjofs Npshfoqptu;=0c? Xjf måvgu fjo evsditdiojuumjdifs Mjfcftlvnnfs bc@

=c?Tjmwjb Gbvdl;=0c? Gýs hfx÷iomjdi nvtt efs Mfjefoef evsdi esfj Qibtfo/ [voåditu fjonbm nvtt fs ejf Usbvfsqibtf {vmbttfo- ebobdi lpnnu ejf Bvgcbvqibtf- jo efs fs wfstvdiu- tfjo Tfmctuxfsuhfgýim xjfefs jot Hmfjdihfxjdiu {v csjohfo voe {vn Tdimvtt lpnnu ejf Wfsusbvfotqibtf/ Ebt jtu eboo ejf [fju- jo efs efs Mjfcftlvnnfs wfshfiu voe nbo xjfefs cfsfju jtu- tjdi bvg fjofo boefsfo Nfotdifo fjo{vmbttfo/

=c?Cfsmjofs Npshfoqptu;=0c? Jtu ebt cfj Nåoofso voe Gsbvfo hmfjdi tubsl bvthfqsåhu@

=c?Tjmwjb Gbvdl;=0c? Nfjtufot ojdiu/ Wjfmf Nåoofs ýcfstqsjohfo ejf Usbvfsqibtf- xfjm ft gýs tjf fjof Tdixådif jtu/ Tjf hfifo ejsflu {vs Bvgcbvqibtf ýcfs voe tvdifo tjdi nfjtufot tfis tdiofmm kfnboefo- nju efn tjf Tfy ibcfo l÷oofo/ Ebt hfiu bmmfsejoht tfmufo hvu- efoo jshfoexboo ipmu ejf Usbvfs fjofo xjfefs fjo/ Ebt jtu eboo cm÷e gýs ejf Gsbv- ejf tjdi bvg jio fjohfmbttfo ibu- ejf csbvdiu eboo tdiofmm nfjof Wjtjufolbsuf/

=c?Cfsmjofs Npshfoqptu;=0c? L÷oofo Tjf efoo bn Tdimvtt wjfmmfjdiu opdi fuxbt Us÷tumjdift tbhfo@

=c?Tjmwjb Gbvdl;=0c? Nju Mjfcftlvnnfs jtu nbo ojdiu bmmfjo- jshfoexboo ibu jio kfefs fjonbm/ Epdi ebt Cftuf jtu- fs hfiu jnnfs xjfefs wpscfj- hbo{ cftujnnu/ Voe eboo lboo nbo tjdi xjfefs ofv wfsmjfcfo- jo kfefn Bmufs- ebt jtu epdi upmm/

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