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Mama am Rande des Nervenzusammenbruchs

In den Ferien wollen Kinder Abwechslung und Abenteuer. Eltern wollen ihre Ruhe

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"Fünf Tage noch!", stöhnen die beiden Kleinen und lassen den Ranzen synchron fallen. "Was gibt's zu essen?" Stumm deute ich auf den Topf, in dem Spaghetti brodeln. "Nur noch fünf Tage", ruft der Große aus dem Flur und lässt den Rucksack krachen. Nur einen Moment später knallt die Große die Haustür zu, wirft ihre Tussi-Tasche quer durch die Küche und juchzt: "Fünf Tage noch, dann haben die Sackgesichter Pause!" Es klang vielleicht ein bisschen lahm, mein Echo. "Fünf Tage noch, toll. Geht jetzt mal alle Hände waschen."

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In- tp wfslfisu ojdiu/ Jdi iåuuf eb tp fjof Jeff///