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Liebe in Zeiten der Patchwork- Familie

Einen Partner zu finden, ist gar nicht so einfach - erst recht nicht, wenn Kinder da sind. Eine Berlinerin verkuppelt Alleinerziehende

"Die Liebe ist ein lebenslanges Thema", sagt Sabine Bächer, "und auch wer schon erlebt hat, dass der Traum von einer gemeinsamen Zukunft geplatzt ist, hört doch nicht auf zu suchen." Die 37-Jährige weiß, wovon sie spricht. Sie ist Inhaberin und Geschäftsführerin des fünf Monate alten Dating-Portals "match-patch".

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