Hochzeitsplanung

Im Einsatz für das perfekte Jawort

Eine Hochzeitsplanerin über ihren Berufsalltag, die eigene Hochzeit und den Einfluss von Eltern und Leoparden auf das Brautpaar

Foto: Bertold Fabricius / Bertold Fabricius/Pressebild.de/Bertold Fabricius

Melanie Schmitz steht in einem Meer von Rosen im Blumenladen "Casaflora" an der Danziger Straße. Cremeweiß mit Grün, das passe immer auf einer Hochzeit, sagt sie. Aber zunehmend würden Brautleute auch mal Pink oder Lila als Deko wählen. Die 34-Jährige muss es wissen, immerhin ist sie professionelle Hochzeitsplanerin und hat mit ihrer Hamburger Agentur "marry me" schon insgesamt mehr als 140 Trauungen und Feiern organisiert. Mit ihr sprach Annette Kuhn.

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