Söhne und Töchter von alkoholkranken Eltern

Und plötzlich ist die Kindheit vorbei

| Lesedauer: 8 Minuten

Ob es ein guter oder ein schlechter Tag ist, spürt Lena schon, wenn sie nach der Schule zu Hause die Tür öffnet. Wenn ihre Eltern sich nicht streiten, ihr Vater im Büro sitzt, die Mutter Zeit hat, mit ihr über die Schule zu sprechen - dann ist es ein guter Tag. Einer, an dem ihr Vater nicht so viel getrunken hat.

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