Patchwork-Familien

Und langsam wächst alles zusammen

| Lesedauer: 8 Minuten
Astrid Herbold

Patchwork ist aufreibend und anstrengend. Aber wenn das Experiment gelingt, kann es verdammt glücklich machen

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