Interview

"Man muss zuerst die Freundschaft des Kindes erwerben"

| Lesedauer: 3 Minuten

Viele zusammengewürfelte Familien zerbrechen an Alltagskonflikten. Darüber, wie man die in den Griff bekommen kann, sprach Astrid Herbold mit Peter Brink, Diplom-Psychologe bei der Familienberatung Berlin-Mitte

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