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Immer mehr junge Menschen begleiten Hospiz-Gäste

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Ole Roloff kümmert sich um Marianna Czako.

Ole Roloff kümmert sich um Marianna Czako.

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Vorbereitungskurse für Sterbebegleitung werden nun häufiger von jungen Menschen besucht.

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"Am Anfang bin ich einmal ausgebüxt"

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