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Kinder aus Suchtfamilien: Im Schatten der Süchtigen

| Lesedauer: 7 Minuten
Alexander Rothe
Kinder und Jugendliche mit alkohol- oder drogenabhängigen Elternteilen entwickeln in den meisten Fällen psychische und soziale Störungen oder werden selbst süchtig. (Symbolbild)

Kinder und Jugendliche mit alkohol- oder drogenabhängigen Elternteilen entwickeln in den meisten Fällen psychische und soziale Störungen oder werden selbst süchtig. (Symbolbild)

Foto: Nicolas Armer / dpa

Das Leid von Kindern aus Suchtfamilien bleibt oft unsichtbar und findet nur langsam politisches Gehör. Zwei Betroffene berichten.

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Über die Sucht wurde nie gesprochen

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Jedes sechste Kind stammt aus einer Suchtfamilie

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Unterstützung von Kindern aus Suchtfamilien erstmals im Koalitionsvertrag

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Sucht ist weiterhin ein Tabuthema

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Lebenskrise mit 30 Jahren

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