Corona-Krise

Ostern zu Hause: Psychologe gibt Tipps

Das Osterfest kann für Familien auch ein Neustart sein. Psychologe Peter Walschburger rät, sich etwas zu gönnen.

Dieses Osterfest wird völlig anders. Kein Kirchgang, keine große Feier. Wie kommen die Familien in Zeiten der Corona-Krise gut über die Feiertage? Professor Peter Walschburger (73) hat viele Jahre zu Belastungssituationen und ihren Bewältigungen geforscht. Er lehrt am Fachbereich Erziehungswissenschaft und Psychologie der Freien Universität. Seine Grundlagenforschung richtet sich auf den Menschen als Natur- und Kulturwesen.

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