Flüchtlinge in Berlin

Bei Familie Alaya überschattet Trauer das Glück

| Lesedauer: 8 Minuten
Paulina Czienskowski
Loris und Rafaat Alaya mit ihrer Tochter Teresa und Sohn Josef in ihrer Wohnung

Loris und Rafaat Alaya mit ihrer Tochter Teresa und Sohn Josef in ihrer Wohnung

Foto: Joerg Krauthoefer

Die Flüchtlingsfamilie Alaya lebt seit mehr als einem Jahr in Berlin. Sohn Josef ist geboren worden, doch in Syrien starb die Schwester des Vaters.

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