Flüchtlingsfamilie

Abed und Refat – ein Jahr zwischen Bangen und Hoffen

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Deutsch-syrische Freundschaft: Nicola Wolter, Refat, Abed, Basel und Gastgeberin Melina Berné (v.l.)

Deutsch-syrische Freundschaft: Nicola Wolter, Refat, Abed, Basel und Gastgeberin Melina Berné (v.l.)

Foto: Sergej Glanze / Glanze

Flucht und Zuflucht, Heimat und Fremde: Die Syrer Abed und Refat und der Rest ihrer Familie werden 2015 nicht so schnell vergessen.

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