Schüler & Medien

„Mobbing hört selten von alleine auf“

Etwa jeder dritte Schüler ist schon von Mitschülern gemobbt worden, so Studien. Mal sind es Beleidigungen, mal wird das Opfer attackiert. Über Smartphone erfahren oft auch andere davon. Was tun?

Foto: Ingo Wagner / dpa

Gegen Mobbing anzukämpfen, ist sehr schwierig. Aber wie kommt es überhaupt zu Mobbing? Wie kann man es verhindern? Dazu hat Jugendreporterin Natalie Marshall Saskia Weber interviewt, die als Psychotherapeutin für Integrative Verhaltenstherapie für Erwachsene, Kinder und Jugendliche in Berlin arbeitet.

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